Archive for the ‘Advice’ Category

Hourglasses you gorgeous lasses with lovely busts and perfect asses!

Friday, May 17th, 2013

Hourglasses, you lucky things, are considered to be the best of all shapes, lauded by all for your perfect curves.  Honestly though, in my opinion I think the hourglass figure is no better than any other figure.  Different men like different shapes, just take a look around you!  The hourglass has been the epitome of ‘womanly perfection’ for centuries and I believe this comes down to the fact that almost anything looks good on you.  Put simply:  you’re easy to dress.  And wouldn’t this be every woman’s dream?  Imagine never having to faff over the old age quandary of ‘what to wear?’.  Salma Hayek and Charlotte Church are both in the blessed zone of perfect hourglass figures.   I’m sure their stylists must have a ball dressing them! (more…)

So you’re a pear? Find your style of underwear!

Thursday, March 14th, 2013
So you're a pear? Find your style of underwear!

Above:  Pear shaped me 

“I like big butts and I cannot lie!” If you’re a pear shape like me, this affirmation from the Sir Mix-A-Lot couldn’t be better said! I’m an obvious pear shape – bottom heavy. Although my shape is well loved by the opposite sex, I’m still very self conscious especially as I’m large on the thighs. I therefore want to make the best of my shape when selecting my underwear.

My inspiration today is Beyonce, and how could anyone disagree: she has a butt and thighs to die for! Gone are the days of old where skinny, tall and none curvy women were revered, and made the rest of us want to curl up into a paradoxical non curvy ball.

Us pears are used to getting the right looks for our bellies and bottoms, so that’s great. The idea now is to draw the eye up to our more hidden assets, to create a ‘balanced’ image. Here are a few easy tips:
• Choose a demi-cup bra that reveals a little more boob.
• Emphasise the breasts with eye-catching bright coloured and patterned fabrics.
• You could choose something with frills and bows to make it more exciting.
• Add a few millimetres onto your top half with a padded bra.
• Try corsets which emphasise your tiny waist but act like a push up bra.

The biggest issue I have with my body is my thighs as I mentioned earlier. So for pear-shapes, it is a careful choice for your bum, as confidence is paramount.
• Select knickers that have a high cut as it ‘elongates’ the leg.
• And if you’re mixing and matching with colours, then go for less eye-catching colours, something sheer perhaps.
• Avoid patterns and bows that serve only to put emphasis on that area.

And don’t tell him I told you, but straight from the horse’s mouth: despite my pear shape, my boyfriend thinks hot pants and thongs look great on me. And by the sounds of it, I’m sure Sir Mix-A-Lot would agree ☺

by Philippa Morton

2013 New Year Lingerie Resolutions

Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013

New Year ResolutionFor many New Year’s resolutions involve losing weight, doing more exercise, finding a partner being more focused at work etc etc, however I am focusing this year’s resolutions on my lingerie drawer.

1. Learn to say goodbye

I go through phases of having a favourite bra or two in my collection, and I will wear and wear them until they no longer fit me properly or the colour barely resembles its original hue. How long your bra lasts will depend on how many times you wear it and how carefully you wash it. I find that a bra that I wear regularly lasts about 18 months. You can tell that it is time to get rid of it when the wire starts to rub under your arm or it is too loose around the rib cage and not giving enough support. (more…)

Lingerie for the Party Season

Friday, December 14th, 2012

Party season is in full swing and getting all glammed up is part of the fun but if you aren’t wearing the right underpinnings you could end up having a lingerie let down! (more…)

Lingerie Lover shares breast enlargement journey

Tuesday, September 11th, 2012

Olivia Mullarkey

30 year old Olivia Mullarkey is a Recruitment Coordinator from London.  Having had a breast enlargement procedure 5 years ago she has never looked back.  Here’s why …

 

Q  Why did you decide to have a breast enlargement? 

I always wanted bigger boobs, in fact I still do. I was very self conscious about how I looked and I knew having a breast enlargement would make me feel better about myself.  I finally decided to have it done after a close friend had hers done. I was so impressed with how real they looked and felt that it confirmed my decision to get them done.

 

Q  What was your original bra size and what is your bra size now?

I was a 30C before.  After the operation they went up to a 30E but since having a child they have changed.

I went up to G cup whilst I was lactating but unfortunately they have deflated back to an E. I have quite a bit of extra skin now so if I had the money, I would definitely go a bit bigger.

 

Q How did medical professionals respond to your request when you first approached them?

I spoke to my GP before I had the procedure as I decided to have mine done in Belgium. I wanted to make sure I would get after care if needed.  My doctor was fine about it and told me to come in any time if I had any problems.

 

Q  Do you ever find that people judge you for choosing to have a breast enlargement? 

Yeah definitely. But it doesn’t bother me at all.

 

Q  Have there been any health repercussions for having a breast enlargement?  If so, how do you combat them?

I haven’t had any, thank God. I was worried I wouldn’t be able to breast feed but luckily I was able to, as I had the implants under my muscles.

 

Q  Did you find that your bra choices changed once you went bigger? 

Yes, I found it so much easier to buy bras once I had the op.  However, I find it more difficult now as there isn’t much of a range for my current size.

 

Q  What qualities do you look for when selecting lingerie? 

Definitely comfort and support first. I do like matching underwear but can’t always get sets in my size so I tend to buy a lot of black.

 

Q  There is an underlying idea that bigger breasts attract men.  Do you think that is true?  If so, have they been the type of men that you are looking for? 

To be honest I think I get more attention now because I am more confident. The boobs obviously help.

 

Q  If you could have, would you have liked to have the work done earlier in life? 

Yes. I would have had them done in my teens if I could have.

 

Q  What advice would you give to young women considering a breast enlargement? 

It’s not something you should rush out and do. You really need to think about it and do a lot of research. I contacted a lady called Linda Briggs. She researches Cosmetic procedures around the World. Her website had great information and she was able to put me in contact with other women who had already had breast enlargements with the same surgeon I had chosen.

I knew I had made the right decision as it was all I thought about for years.

My confidence grew so much and clothes looked a lot better on me.

Since having my breast enlargement, my sister and two of my friends decided to have theirs done too, with the same surgeon. 4 other friends also had theirs done but they decided to have their procedures done inLondon.

Big breasts, bras and hubby

Tuesday, August 7th, 2012

How do you find that perfect bra? It usually takes time and money. But Plums Lingerie have made it a little easier for you as we embark on a series of interviews from women of all shapes, sizes and backgrounds. It won’t cost you a dime, only 5 minutes of your time to read our blog.

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Hunting for The Perfect Bra

Tuesday, July 17th, 2012
Hunting for The Perfect Bra

How do you find that perfect bra? It usually takes time and money. But Plums Lingerie have made it a little easier for you as we embark on a series of interviews from women of all shapes, sizes and backgrounds. It won’t cost you a dime, only 5 minutes of your time to read our blog.

First up is 29 year old London accountant Tammy Bessinger (size 36E) who will share her top tips in hunting for those perfect bras.

What have been some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced as a big chested woman?
It’s actually easy. Retailers like Marks and Spencer go all the way up to G-H. But the main retailer doesn’t think about adapting it once you get over a certain bra size, whereas your boutique retailers definitely do.

What have you found to be the best brands for your lingerie needs?
Now you’re asking! Panache, Fantasie and Freya those are the main brands that come to mind.

Do you find that there is a good range of sexy underwear for larger sizes?
Yes. It depends what you’re looking for. If it’s corsets and stuff like that, that’s a battle.

Once you’ve found a good brand to wear, how likely are you to explore new brands?
Unlikely. You want to stick with what works.

Have you got any tricks you use when selecting your bras? The only trick I do have with main retailer bras, is that they keep the bras padded even for bigger sizes. If you’re wearing a top with buttons, they’ll pop because you’re bigger. I don’t wear padded bras, so that my buttons don’t pop! I’m also constantly pulling my top down, so that the buttons don’t expose the bra.

What do you consider to be a reasonably priced bra?
I would say £30- £40 for something comfortable.

Do you consider your husband when you’re picking a bra?
It depends what the bra’s for. Absolutely for him once in a while I will go slightly higher than my normal range.

What qualities do you look for in a bra?
I don’t want it to be padded, but I still want it to have structure. Double lined material at the bottom, wide strap at the back. I also have to be careful about ‘push’, as I can’t wear low tops without getting ‘Oh My God’ looks from people. It’s very important to get a fitting done and get your breasts sized properly. A lot of retailers do it for free. In the old days it used to be naked and embarrassing, and it’s not like that anymore. It’s very important to get your back the support it needs, you’ve got to have wide back support. They say in a bra that your breast should never ever be lower than midway between your shoulder and your elbow.

And last but not least: what has been your most embarrassing experience when it comes to lingerie?
I was wearing a sundress with a push up bra, and a woman stopped what she was doing and stared at me as if to say ‘Are those for real?’

 
photo credit: canonsnapper via photo pin cc

The Perfect Bridal Briefs Guide

Sunday, May 15th, 2011

In Part 1 of the Bridal Lingerie Series we looked at the different bras available to wear under your wedding dress.  But lots of dresses have inbuilt corsetry and so you don’t need to worry about wearing a bra.  This means that you can really go to town on the the briefs! If you have full skirt to your dress you really can have some fun!

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#lingeriechat Lingerie Care 1 May

Wednesday, May 4th, 2011

Bras and knickers on a washing lineWelcome to this weeks summary of lingerie chat! The topic of this week’s lingerie chat was lingerie care. This post is a summary of everything we chatted about: First it was decided that we would include nightwear, bras, and briefs in our chat.

Q1. Pretty much every piece of lingerie I come across says hand wash. Do you follow the washing advice? @Rosa_Lingerie said, “I do but I know a lot of my customers are astonished when I advice hand washing, they never read the labels.” @PlumsLingerie and @PS_Lingerie admitted to machine washing occasionally and @PlumsLingerie added, “Lots of my customers are pleased that our brands machine wash so well.”

All agreed that a wash bag is a must for machine washing. (more…)

4 Lingerie Solutions For Your Wedding Day

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

Love is in the air and Kate and Wills have kicked off the wedding season with their nuptials.  If you are getting ready for your wedding you will want to feel like a princess from head to toe.  Here is our guide to picking the correct lingerie for your big day.

1. Bandeau Style

There are two options for the bandeau style dress.  Brides usually head straight towards a traditional strapless bra but depending on the dress you could look at a basque. Not only are basques more glamorous they also stay firmly in place so you don’t have to worry about it slipping.  If the dress is not structured you will need to make sure the basque lines don’t show through.

2. Halterneck

The bra you choose will depend on how low the back of the dress is.  If it’s a sccop back and low at the front you will have to look at stick on cups or breast petals but if you can go without anything that maybe the best idea after all it’s not the most glamarous look when you de-robe.  If the back is higher you could try a convertible bra with a plunge front like the Marie Jo Avero Mulitway bra.  Just  ensure the straps follow the line of the dress and don’t stick out.

3. Corseted

Many dresses are very structured and the bodice is boned  and laced up the back.  Usually this boning will provide enough support so you can go without a bra.  If you decide to wear a bra you may end up feeling constricted and uncomfortable.

4. Strapped

A normal bra can be worn with the dress.  The key considerations are will the straps follow the same line as the dress straps and whether to choose a smooth or lace cup.  If the dress is clingy a underwired body is a great solution to make sure you have a smooth line.  The Marie Jo Jane body is a good choice if you want a smooth look that doesn’t look utilitarian.

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All dress images are from David’s Bridal

1. Bandeau Style Dress

2. Halterneck Style Dress

Corseted Wedding Dress

3. Corseted Dress

Wedding Dress with Straps

4. Strapped Dress

Marie Jo Delphine Basque

1. Marie Jo Delphine Basque

Marie Jo Avero Halterneck Bra

2. Marie Jo Avero

Simone Perele Romance Bra

4. Simone Perele Romance